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		<title>A couple thoughts on General Convention</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the summer, the General Convention of the Episcopal Church met in Anaheim, California.   There was plenty of good work getting done.   The church considered a variety of issues, from benefits for lay employees, support of the Cuban Church, and the other foundational work that allows us to support each other.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Over the summer, the General Convention of the Episcopal Church met in Anaheim, California.   There was plenty of good work getting done.   The church considered a variety of issues, from benefits for lay employees, support of the Cuban Church, and the other foundational work that allows us to support each other.</p>
<p>One issue excited the media:  the affirmation that sexual orientation should not be a bar for the episcopacy.   In 2006, General Convention resolved that the church would have a moratoria on consecrating gay bishops for the sake of the communion.  It wasn&#8217;t suitable for many who opposed, who were looking for a rejection of Bishop Robinson, the first openly gay bishop in Catholic Christendom.</p>
<p>The resolution merely affirms this:  The Episcopal Church finds no theological reason to discriminate.  One&#8217;s sexuality will not be the primary criteria for a Church&#8217;s appointment.  </p>
<p>Although this may disturb many people, it is a consequence of the democratic nature of the institution and the fragmentation of denominational life that has been happening since the early 70&#8217;s. </p>
<p>Because General Convention, our ruling body, is a democratic institution, the church will always accommodate changing cultural views &#8211; and the Episcopal church is an accurate bellweather for the views of the culture at large. </p>
<p>The shift toward an agnostic perspective toward sexuality is exacerbated by the cultural shift of the church from a &#8220;voice&#8221; institution to an &#8220;exit&#8221; institution.  &#8220;Voice&#8221; institutions are like families:  you might not like it, but you don&#8217;t leave the family.  &#8220;Exit&#8221; institutions are like franchises or stores.</p>
<p>We are in an era where churches compete, like other businesses, for attention.   Conservatives may leave for friendlier franchises while social liberals dominate the Episcopal church.    This is the consequence of the church succumbing to the ethos of a commercial society.  Do I think this is bad?  Not necessarily, but I&#8217;m sentimental.</p>
<p>When we divide we are truly succumbing to a cultural shift that affirms our own particular ideological preference is more important than the relationships we have.      That said, I do think that &#8220;capitalism&#8221; &#8211; even as churches compete &#8211; is more responsible for peace than war.  And I&#8217;m willing to argue about it (and be proven wrong as well). </p>
<p>However, I worry as we move away from the conservative &#8211; and honorable &#8211; traditions that affirm loyalty, tenacity and engagement; that familial relationships and traditions are of equal importance to individual preference.   </p>
<p>What does this mean for the church?  My predictions:</p>
<p>1) The episcopal church will still continue to select primarily married male bishops.<br />
2) Dioceses throughout the world will be split.  Bishops in Africa who need our help will be in conflict with other bishops who find the Episcopal view taboo.   This split will be difficult in some places, but allow for greater pockets of safety for individuals of different sexualities in less tolerant countries.<br />
3) The Episcopal Church will become a niche church for those who are socially libertarian and theologically modern.<br />
4) The Church of England will be forced to confront its own hypocrisy in its clerical orders as the Archbishop tries to figure out what to do next.<br />
5) The Episcopal Church will continue to build relationships with dioceses throughout the world based on feeding the hungry, clothing the naked and visiting the prisoner.<br />
6) Most Episcopal Churches will continue to decline because they do not offer compelling alternative views to the culture at large.</p>
<p>I do not think the church will grow because of our church&#8217;s clarity.  It may grow.  But people rarely join churches because of an idea.  My friends who are cheering the Episcopal church&#8217;s liberality aren&#8217;t the sort who will find themselves darkening our doors.  However, church communities that offer authentic hope, help and hospitality grow, no matter what their beliefs are. </p>
<p>At St. Barts I have been deliberate on ensuring that our own church does is not divided by social, political or economic issues.  What unites us our mutual trust and gratitude in being able to experience God&#8217;s grand creation.  </p>
<p>When the Lord said, &#8220;love one another&#8221; he didn&#8217;t continue with the word, &#8220;but&#8230;&#8221; or &#8220;if&#8230;.&#8221;  It seems like a simple command, doesn&#8217;t it?  But how difficult it is when what we believe matters more. </p>
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		<title>David and Bathsheba</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the last several weeks we&#8217;ve been discussing the David story in Samuel.  A king, a bit impetuous, handsome, a celebrity.  There&#8217;s illicit sex, pointless violence, hard-fought redemption.  It is a story that still resonates.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Over the last several weeks we&#8217;ve been discussing the David story in Samuel.  A king, a bit impetuous, handsome, a celebrity.  There&#8217;s illicit sex, pointless violence, hard-fought redemption.  It is a story that still resonates.</p>
<p>In the Hebrew bible, the heroes make mistakes; they break the rules; they ignore tradition; even the anointed are punished and the righteous are wrong. </p>
<p>David&#8217;s seduction of Bathsheba and murder of her husband, if anything, demonstrates that being divinely approved does not insulate one from doing wrong.  David, so inebriated by his own power, succumbing to his immediate whims, is blind to the violence and misery he causes.  Instead of examining himself, he believes that only other men are capable of evil.  After being a soldier for so long, it was always the other country.</p>
<p>Nathan &#8211; his prophet &#8211; tells him a parable, effectively holding up a mirror,  shocking him out of his narcissism; warning him of the consequences.  David is shocked by what he sees.</p>
<p>The theologian James Alison notes that religion can build a fortress from which we judge others and protect ourselves; or it can be a source of inward reflection and self-understanding.  It can teach us to judge others; or it can be a way of changing our own behavior.   David was king, chosen by the Israelite God who  broke the code of law, believing he had every right to.</p>
<p>But then he is challenged by the prophet, who embodies the conscience.  &#8220;You are the man!&#8221; </p>
<p>A journalist once reflected that the most pious individuals are most at risk to cut moral corners.  The morally rigorous justify their severity towards others, but keeping their own shortcomings in private.  Those who believe that they speak the Word of God are often those who have the most to hide. </p>
<p>And yet, if we are willing to reflect inward, to see in ourselves our bare humanity, we will find an opening for the transcendent to break in, offer enough clarity to understand who we are, and grant us enough resilience to handle the vicissitudes of our life with confidence.  It is thus only with humility and great trepidation may we judge the moral consciences of others, and make the mistake that we are different than our fellow human beings.</p>
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		<title>All the Credit We Need</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Remember when the market crashed in 2008? 
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Remember when the market crashed in 2008? </p>
<p>You saw the images of traders.  Some were about to cry.  Others rubbing their forehead, trying to figure out their next step: the frustrated frown; the blank incredulous stare; the head on the desk, the graph of the market plunging downward, probably weeping, billions under his care suddenly vanished. </p>
<p>Where did it go?  Did they ever even exist?  All that light over the internet, symbols of great wealth and power, going dark, as the numbers rapidly decrease.</p>
<p>What to do?   Governments are cutting rates; others are taking over banks.  They are busycajoling people to share and stop hoarding, to get the big monetary institutions to trust each other again.  But even governments themselves are having a hard time.   Iceland, after 10 years of buying up parts of Europe, is back to fishing.   </p>
<p>Mark Taylor, the theologian, uses the metaphor of poker to describe the desire to keep the markets trading.  But the poker game has ended.  We&#8217;re sitting around the table, deciding its time to go and cash in our chips, when the banker of the house says, I&#8217;ve got no money.  Your chips are worthless.  Perhaps we were just playing for fun (add wan smile and shrug).    </p>
<p>The banker himself had invested a fair amount.  He&#8217;d thought that when others bought into the game, they&#8217;d use real cash themselves.  But some of us asked for credit as well when we anted up and we all agreed.  Why not?  We were doing it ourselves.  </p>
<p>Most of us. </p>
<p>But now all the players are left stranded.  </p>
<p>Nobody thought they&#8217;d want to end the game.   They thought it would continue forever, until the end of time, or the King Returned.  People would add money and our pots would just get bigger.  Everyone could keep buying in. </p>
<p>Until just one person, or two, or three, decided they wanted to cash in.</p>
<p>Some will suggest that we have to continue playing:  Give everyone a half-credit; redistribute the chips;  Get some real money in the system.  But everyone&#8217;s tired and nobody trusts the banker.  Or each other.</p>
<p>Nobody realized that nobody had actually given the house any money.    </p>
<p>I&#8217;m not an economist.   I don&#8217;t have a crystal ball about the future.  And I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s all that helpful to offer a Panglossian veneer on the subject.  People are hurting and scared and poorer.  Bless them.  Bless the investor, bless the banker, bless the retiree, the businessman, bless the homeowner. </p>
<p>At the very least, the light that was the virtual pool of wealth in cyberspace, has also revealed itself to connect every person in our commercial reality.   So what are we to do with each other?  Judgment?  Of course.  Mutual Aid?  A few wishful chants of &#8220;never again?&#8221;  Why not, if it makes us feel better.</p>
<p>I had begun writing this essay before seeing the Dow, exploring this idea of being the  &#8220;master of the universe.&#8221;  It&#8217;s what lots of traders thought of themselves as they were busy exchanging vast sums of money.  Perhaps now comes the hard truth that we are not masters, even the most die-hard self-actualizing Rand worshipping libertarian.  Once a master, now a servant.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t have many suggestions.  Buy low?  If you&#8217;ve got money, then go ahead.  Sell?  Well, that&#8217;s what everyone else is doing.  Invest in green infrastructure?  It is tangible, but it won&#8217;t help the church endowment right now and that will have to wait until after the election that to have any impact.  When you come to church, I&#8217;m not going to give you any stock tips.   Except Berkshire Hathaway, and you&#8217;ve probably already figured that one out yourself.</p>
<p>But I do know this: </p>
<p>I hope that at the end of the day, if you&#8217;ve lost gobs of money trading, you have a sweetheart you can go home to who just doesn&#8217;t give a damn about the millions you&#8217;ve lost. </p>
<p>I also hope that your number isn&#8217;t published. </p>
<p>I hope that your children will run up to you and give you a big kiss  on the cheek just because you exist and ask you to play catch or read them a story.</p>
<p>I hope to Jesus that when your best friend calls you, it won&#8217;t just be to ask you about the thousands of his you lost investing in Lehman brothers, but about how your holding up.   I hope he forgives you and will accept your buying him an extra round a drinks.  </p>
<p>(By the way, what in God&#8217;s name were you thinking?  You could have done a little research on credit swaps.  They were toxic.)</p>
<p>And for those of us who don&#8217;t have much invested, we&#8217;re going to have some people to help along the way.  Our soup kitchen is going to get a bit more crowded, our thrift shop will get a bit more busy (although these last two quarters we&#8217;ve had record breaking receipts.  Ka-Ching!), and there will be a few people selling their businesses, or being terminated from their jobs.</p>
<p>I hope that here, our treasure was never in the stock market to begin with. </p>
<p>It was right here.  Our confidence was somewhere else.</p>
<p>In our small tendernesses; in our sharing of scripture and stories.  It was right here when ten of us drank three bottles of wine celebrating the new altar we built ourselves. </p>
<p>It was right here when the thrift shop ladies, myself and Debbie had soup and salmon right in the middle of the sanctuary. </p>
<p>Let everyone else hoard their stashes of money.   Here we share a little of our mutual gratitude.  Let it be enough.</p>
<p>Its enough for us to love each other and pick up the shards of that remain from the broken spirits and hearts around us.  Its enough to be the presence of God for those who&#8217;ve been only in the presence of mammon.  It is enough to just be the jar that contains the spirit of hope and courage.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not much.  But it&#8217;s enough. </p>
<p>And in a world that always wants more perhaps that&#8217;s what&#8217;s we&#8217;re saying.  We know what our treasure is.  And it is enough.  And we can still share it and spread it around a bit.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve got a little love, and we&#8217;ve got a little faith, and that&#8217;s enough.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s all the credit we need. </p>
<p>Praise Him!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the last three week&#8217;s we&#8217;ve been exposed to some fairly severe tragedies:  the murder of three women by an angry, lonely, depraved man; the drunk mother who drove the wrong way on the Taconic, killing eight.  
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Over the last three week&#8217;s we&#8217;ve been exposed to some fairly severe tragedies:  the murder of three women by an angry, lonely, depraved man; the drunk mother who drove the wrong way on the Taconic, killing eight.  </p>
<p>For most of us, these are clear examples of right and wrong, concrete representations of injustice and horror.  I&#8217;ve heard the word &#8220;evil&#8221; spoken even by individuals who believe that everyone is, in their hearts, good.   &#8220;How could she do such a thing?&#8221; I&#8217;ve heard over and over;  &#8220;That man will burn in hell.&#8221;  </p>
<p>Anger, surprise, frustration &#8211; all rational responses.   The rage and selfishness of these two individuals seem beyond our comprehension.  How did the man get to that stage of anger?  How could that woman have been so selfish? </p>
<p>And our moral outrage is justified.  It is our way of honoring the humanity of those whose lives were cut mercilessly short. </p>
<p>Last week the scriptures stated that Jesus is the &#8220;bread of life.&#8221;  This poetic description of Christ is an alteration:  instead of Jesus being violently sacrificed for the sake of peace, we&#8217;re invited into a different way of gathering people into a community. </p>
<p>What happened in the community of hearers was a complete change in their relationship with one another.  As Jesus was inviting them, through love, into a relationship with a different, non-violent, non-judgmental, loving spirit, they were invited into gracious, encouraging, joyful and hopeful relationships with each other.   The bread of life was the glue that helped them endure each other&#8217;s quirks, frailties and challenges:  because being in relationship with other people is hard work.  Jesus is saying &#8211; stay connected.  And you don&#8217;t need to kill people to do it. </p>
<p>George Sodini and Diane Schuler were both extremely isolated.  To some extent, they were free to make the decisions they made; although theologically, Augustine would argue they were &#8220;slaves to sin.&#8221;  Sodini was enslaved by his anger; Schuler was enslaved by drink. </p>
<p>The church&#8217;s perspective is not much different than the popular view, in some ways.  We mourn the dead.  We hate what is evil.  We pray for justice.  We trust that witnessing tragedy evokes some transformation toward what is beautiful and good in others. </p>
<p>These two individuals, who were closed from society and their own deep own emotional needs, stand in stark contrast to the fundamental task of the church.  We exist to keep people connected; to remind people that they can learn to hold their anger, rage and sorrow without violence, while trusting in a community of faithful believers, if they so choose.   A friend of mine, sober for 22 months said to me, that by giving up the hooch, she gained close new friends.  Although not everyone needs to be abstinent, the truth is that it is often our connections that save us, and we find many ways to cut people off.</p>
<p>We say there is no justice sacrificing others at the altar of our own self-righteousness, frustration or hatred.  There is no eternal redemption or peace at the bottom of a bottle.   They are temporary, ephemeral satisfactions at best.  And at worst they destroy lives, and break our hearts.  </p>
<p>As the innocent die, the cross again represents.  As well as we must confront the implicit, if paradoxical, challenge to those of us witnessing:  it didn&#8217;t need to be that way.   </p>
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		<title>Michelle Malkin&#8217;s Bad Advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 06:08:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Michelle Malkin is looking for better Republicans.
&#8220;Better&#8221; means a certain kind of list.  
Small government.  No Veteran&#8217;s Administration, Medicare, or Medicaid.   Fewer unemployment benefits.  Probably less agribusiness, also but you won&#8217;t read about that on her site.
Pro-life.  She doesn&#8217;t talk much about contraception, but I imagine she shies away [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=padremambo.wordpress.com&blog=5759837&post=476&subd=padremambo&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p><a href="http://michellemalkin.com/2009/11/08/health-care-takeover-roll-call-vote-and-what-gop-rep-joseph-cao-got-from-obama/">Michelle Malkin</a> is looking for better Republicans.</p>
<p>&#8220;Better&#8221; means a certain kind of list.  </p>
<p>Small government.  No Veteran&#8217;s Administration, Medicare, or Medicaid.   Fewer unemployment benefits.  Probably less agribusiness, also but you won&#8217;t read about that on her site.</p>
<p>Pro-life.  She doesn&#8217;t talk much about contraception, but I imagine she shies away from that topic.</p>
<p>Strong Military, although privatizing it is probably OK, even if it costs more money for taxpayer.</p>
<p>Especially Amerika for Amerikans.  Her view:  if an insane person decides to shoot up people at work, it&#8217;s probably because he&#8217;s a foreigner, a Muslim, or a liberal.  Not because he&#8217;s insane.</p>
<p>Malkin&#8217;s advice is that the RNC should find &#8220;pure&#8221; Republicans  who follow the line.</p>
<p>I will confess, reader, that I&#8217;m a registered Republican.   But I&#8217;m not an ideologue.  I&#8217;m not a party politician.  Old patrician school.  I have always, however, appreciated the class of prosperous Americans who loved the country, distrusted any kind of ideological purity or utopianism, and were dissatisfied with the ethnic politicking of the Democratic Party.   They hated corruption and agreed with basic principles of fairness, including civil rights.   They were pro-choice.</p>
<p>Their conservatism stemmed from a distrust of the Soviet Union and Left-Wing idealism.  While they didn&#8217;t believe government solved all problems, the worked with other institutions.  They believed in the power of education, didn&#8217;t blame the poor, but still encouraged individual responsibility.</p>
<p>If you wanted the Republican party to win in a Democratic district, you could run a conservative who responds to Glenn Beck or Rush Limbaugh.  And lose.   </p>
<p>Or you could go the liberal Republican route.  Good liberal Republicans could win in moderate districts.   </p>
<p>Malkin hates liberals.  She&#8217;d rather have a corrupt Democrat than an honest Republican who supported Democratic policies.    </p>
<p>For this reason, Malkin wants to remain in the party of opposition.    </p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1U3lD-HBkt0&amp;feature=player_embedded">Joseph Cao</a> is in a predominantly African-American district, a liberal one.   He&#8217;s an example of a Republican who can caucus with the Republicans but occasionally vote the other party.</p>
<p>Michelle&#8217;s suggestion for the Republicans:  find someone better.   And they could, probably.  Someone better, who would lose to a Democrat.  </p>
<p>That&#8217;s her advice.  </p>
<p>I want to suggest the following:</p>
<p>A Republican can win a Democratic district if s/he does the following:</p>
<p>Help their constituents;<br />
Maintain a high level of personal integrity;<br />
Work with Democrats;<br />
Compromise when necessary.</p>
<p>Malkin&#8217;s general view is that ideology trumps helping constituents;  it&#8217;s all pork.  Integrity is solely the purview of conservatives.  Working with Democrats is enough to to taint any Republican.  </p>
<p>What Malkin doesn&#8217;t understand is that Liberal Republicans won&#8217;t let Democrats use parliamentary procedure to halt discussion prematurely.   They&#8217;d be supportive of good rules; and challenge corruption in both parties.   Diversity within a party strengthens a party.   If it weren&#8217;t for liberal Republicans, chances are there would be NO current checks and balances in the current health care debate in the Senate.  Michelle would rather have two Democrats in Maine than two RINOs.  But where would that take her policies?</p>
<p>Malkin has a general skepticism that one can, in good conscience, oppose economic libertarianism, social authoritarianism, and resentment driven populism for good reasons.</p>
<p>So if you were a Republican who wanted to win in a predominantly Democratic, or politically moderate, district, learn to manage government well.  Challenge cronies, support good policies, and let the government support good programs.  You&#8217;d support good policies from Republicans, while also crossing the aisle occasionally when useful.</p>
<p>So Republicans:  don&#8217;t follow Michelle&#8217;s rules about finding the most conservative candidates.  They&#8217;re already in congress, doing their conservative thing.    She is happier with ideological purity than effective governance, sacrificing the desire to get anything done to the idol of a true faith.</p>
<p>Instead, if you would like to be a useful organization, support liberal Republicans who critique the corruption in the Democratic party, monitor the excess of government spending, and provide a beacon of integrity in the political process.  There won&#8217;t be many.  But there should be a few.  Without them, the Republican will become a regional party, representing white populism, ineffectively.</p>
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		<title>Forgiving the Man who Bombed Pan Am 103</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 10:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Written as an enewsletter on August 20th, 2009
This week, Scotland freed Abdel Baset al-Megrahi, the man convicted of bombing Pan Am flight 103.  It was a horrible atrocity. 
They freed him on the basis of a tradition called &#8220;compassionate release.&#8221; When a prisoner is near death, the British and the Scottish systems may release [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=padremambo.wordpress.com&blog=5759837&post=382&subd=padremambo&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>This week, Scotland freed Abdel Baset al-Megrahi, the man convicted of bombing Pan Am flight 103.  It was a horrible atrocity. </p>
<p>They freed him on the basis of a tradition called &#8220;compassionate release.&#8221; When a prisoner is near death, the British and the Scottish systems may release prisoners to their families.  It isn&#8217;t unusual.</p>
<p>Plenty of people are upset.  The enraged think this is about oil.   They find compassion hard to fathom given the immensity of the crime.  Others, however, think Al-Megrahi was a convenient scapegoat for a crime actually committed by the Iranians.   But these are trivialities now.  We are faced with the problem of mercy.</p>
<p>Mercy isn&#8217;t forgiveness.  Al-Megrahi did not take responsibility for the crime.  It isn&#8217;t reconciliation:  nobody is having beers with him.  He will not get his life back.  He wasn&#8217;t declared innocent.   He was simply shown mercy.  He was given some dignity to be with his family.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a hard pill to swallow.</p>
<p>The purpose of mercy is not to make us feel good.  It may enrage us more.  But it may be a way for us to step back and stop the cycle of violence.  Mercy creates an implicit covanent.  It offers a gift that need not be returned.  It changes the dynamic from an eye for an eye, to one of peace. </p>
<p>Mercy is a difficult gift, especially when other alternatives are just as well.</p>
<p>Those of us who believe that &#8220;mercy&#8221; was justified must not judge those who shake their fists and demand vengeance.  These are not merely expressions of fear or hatred, but a desire for righteousness.  </p>
<p>Still, we remember the story:  a man executed, but shown no mercy; all those around him are enraged; it temporarily brings peace.  But when he is seen again, he does not return out of rage, but out of forgiveness.  There is no need to hold on to vengeance or resentment.  Peace has been won.  Christ has ended the violence by showing mercy upon those who executed him wrongly.</p>
<p>When we say &#8220;mercy&#8221; it is because we&#8217;ve understood the cross.  that sometimes we murder the innocent; we know the dangers of becoming consumed by our own rage.  By saying &#8220;mercy&#8221; we say that the the violence ends here.  God will have his justice, but until then, no more.  It stops with us.  May it now.  Stop.</p>
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		<title>Jesus Encounters the Woman</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 09:14:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Based on Proper 19
In this week&#8217;s Gospel reading, Jesus has his encounter with the Syro-phonecian woman.   She asks for her daughter to be healed.  Jesus initially refuses and insults her.  But the woman entreats him.  Jesus, then moved by her directness, heals her daughter.   In a short passage [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=padremambo.wordpress.com&blog=5759837&post=380&subd=padremambo&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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<p>In this week&#8217;s Gospel reading, Jesus has his encounter with the Syro-phonecian woman.   She asks for her daughter to be healed.  Jesus initially refuses and insults her.  But the woman entreats him.  Jesus, then moved by her directness, heals her daughter.   In a short passage we see our Lord move from being provincial to magnanimity. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s not easy to be magnanimous.  It requires regular reflection and spiritual discipline.  Even those who love us can utter words that can seem cruel and contemptuous.   We offer ultimatums, we misunderstand intentions, we have suspicions.  In the midst of a fight, magnanimity in these cases seems delusional.</p>
<p>But magnanimity is one of the virtues Christ embodies.  It means, sometimes, managing our own anger; interpreting the best (or misinterpreting the best) in other people.   We let people make mistakes, and we create an opening of trust that can become an anchor for the future.   It means we reject revenge and manage the internal life that would render other people small and inconsequential.</p>
<p>It takes practice.  Sometimes it hurts as much as a hard workout &#8211; because our natural response to being rejected or hurt is to respond with the same.  It requires some bravery.  And as one Greek philosopher said, it requires we endure tactlessness with mildness. </p>
<p>As Christ was, let us have the inner strength to be generous to the defeated and broken.  The only expense is our own pusillanimity.  Perhaps it is the secret of our spiritual healing.   It is worth the price.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes you can hear the desperation of the church crying out into the wilderness.
Where are all the people?
How will we pay the bills?
Why is our roof leaking?
It&#8217;s not a pretty sight.  I&#8217;ve seen churches where parishioners trounce upon new members like vampires, sucking out life from these unsuspecting innocents.
&#8220;Will you serve on this committee? [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=padremambo.wordpress.com&blog=5759837&post=437&subd=padremambo&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>Sometimes you can hear the desperation of the church crying out into the wilderness.</p>
<p>Where are all the people?</p>
<p>How will we pay the bills?</p>
<p>Why is our roof leaking?</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not a pretty sight.  I&#8217;ve seen churches where parishioners trounce upon new members like vampires, sucking out life from these unsuspecting innocents.</p>
<p>&#8220;Will you serve on this committee?  Will you do the work?  Will you give us money?  Blood or your first child is also OK.&#8221;  </p>
<p>It is discouraging for vampires.  I mean, discouraging for us in the church who truly want to serve, and require resources to do this.  </p>
<p>We are caught pleading and begging.   It&#8217;s the season for us not-for-profits to beg and plead.  Blah blah blah.  I need your hard earned cash.  Now.  </p>
<p>Many visitors know that they will be seen as prey and have the sense that they will be valued mainly for their financial contribution.  I know because sometimes I, myself, have felt like a predator, wanting desperately to be liked, begging for people to come again.  And then making newcomers do the work other congregants burnt themselves out on.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s the way many churches work.  </p>
<p>I want us to do something different.  I&#8217;ve noticed that the energy of new members has reinvigorated long term members.  We&#8217;re at an important time in our history. </p>
<p>But before getting on this treadwheel, let me offer a new way of thinking about what we are about to do.  </p>
<p>I believe that if the only thing the church cares about is its own institutional survival, then just let it die.  In fact, let&#8217;s kill it.  People don&#8217;t need clergy as personal chaplains.  They should develop better friendships (although I&#8217;ll always be a friendly sounding board). They don&#8217;t need to fund a building that&#8217;s falling apart, when they&#8217;ve got more pressing needs of their own.    People are not here to serve the church.  Visitors don&#8217;t exist for the sake of the church&#8217;s survival. </p>
<p>As long as the institutional church thinks of the outside community as potential recruits into their cult, it will either become a cult that revolves around a charismatic personality, or die. </p>
<p>What we need is a completely different model.  We&#8217;re beginning to try out here.</p>
<p>A few people, of course, are skeptical.  In the old days, the priest was the caregiver.  The congregation got served.  The priest becomes the one who is responsible for explaining the faith, making the rules, and calling the shots.  I do long for those days, but people don&#8217;t buy it much anymore.  Nor should they.</p>
<p>In a new model, the role of the priest is to communicate the gospel, help people collaborate to live out their ministry, and create entrepreneurial programs that build the community.</p>
<p>In the new model, the church exists for the sake of building up other people &#8211;  that is what Jesus Christ did.  Not just Episcopalians.  Not just Christians or Catholics.  But everyone who needs support.  Skeptics and Jews and Muslims. </p>
<p>Just not Methodists.  And Red Sox fans.  I draw the line there.</p>
<p>Just kidding aobut that, actually.  Of course Methodists.  Shintoists must go to the outer darkness.  Although I have nothing but respect for those who practice the cult of Amaterasu Omakami.</p>
<p>I digress.</p>
<p>The shift means that we live into the idea of the priesthood of all believers.  Instead of being priest centered &#8211; or even church centered &#8211; each one of us has the responsibility of encouraging, challenging and participating in our communities.  In this time of chaos and distress, we are called to discern our community&#8217;s needs.   Every individual in the parish has a calling, a purpose, a potentiality that they can live out and share. </p>
<p>We may have to think hard about how we connect with people.  Do we even know our neighbors?   Can we discover their passions, their needs, their hopes and fears, their motivations?  Then, when we gather, we can share these hopes and find ways to advocate and enact them.  </p>
<p>These friends and connections may never darken our door.  But we would be there.    </p>
<p>This requires a long term view.  It&#8217;s hard to change our perspective because we&#8217;re here looking at the roof, wondering how its going to be fixed, frustrated that our kids don&#8217;t value the faith that we have.   Perhaps we should ask them about what they need.</p>
<p>I think we&#8217;ve been telling people what we need so often we&#8217;ve simply forgotten how to listen.  In many churches we&#8217;ve told them who they should be, what they should do, and what they should do better.   Some people want those churches and need them badly.</p>
<p>Our call, however, may simply be &#8211; at this time &#8211; to listen carefully to what the culture is saying, and where it is hearing the gospel.  For the gospel isn&#8217;t just holed up in church.</p>
<p>Maybe once we have heard, we&#8217;ll become the gathering that was intended for us all along.</p>
<p>And yes, pledge cards will be in the mail.  Yes, we&#8217;re desperate.  We want to suck your blood. </p>
<p>Metaphorically. </p>
<p>Please note that last sentence &#8220;we want to suck your blood&#8221; was meant as humor. </p>
<p>Complaints please forward straight to God.</p>
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		<title>On Repentance and Raising Money</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A friend of St. Barts once came in to the church to discuss raising money.  He suggested an ambitious plan, and we began talking about what people seek and need in their congregations.   
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>A friend of St. Barts once came in to the church to discuss raising money.  He suggested an ambitious plan, and we began talking about what people seek and need in their congregations.   </p>
<p>He grew up in the parish (mid 40&#8217;s), but wandered before finding his own path.   He said that he wished that the church had given stronger instruction about how to live and be transformed in a way to find peace and wholeness in the light of God&#8217;s presence.  His comments were provocative and intriguing.  He was talking about <strong>repentance</strong>.</p>
<p>He was not talking about repentance in the fashion of a street-corner preacher yelling in the public square.  <em>You jerk.  Don&#8217;t you know that God despises your carnal thoughts and contemptible fashion sense?</em>  Most of us think that when we are asked to &#8220;repent&#8221; we&#8217;re asked first to feel bad and then obey what <em>someone else</em>, who is more perfect and uptight, tells us is good for us.   And for a lot of Christians this means mainly rules about sex, tax cuts, and swearing.  </p>
<p>This sort of repentance may be useful for some people.  It can be exactly what they need to hear:  stop drugging yourself, holding others accountable for your own actions, and get on the straight and narrow.    Repentance in this sense means making verbal proclamations about what one believes and then changing what one does.  You agree to what I, your priest and spiritual father, tell you and you are magically altered into a different, more holy, better person.  </p>
<p>I wish I had that sort of magic wand some days, although I&#8217;d probably have to use it on myself.</p>
<p>But there is another way of understanding &#8220;repentance.&#8221;  In fact, my friend used the word &#8220;transfiguration.&#8221;  They fit neatly together.  Repentance in the Greek is &#8220;metanoia&#8221; which is derived from the word for mind, thought and understanding.  In some places scripture repentance is a conversion, and in others it suggests remorse. </p>
<p>I think that Episcopalians are wary of the part that emphasizes the total depravity of human consciousness that a few medieval theologians suggested.  Rather, we rightly acknowledge that our conversion to the spirit is about joy and empowerment.  It means sometimes saying &#8220;stop&#8221; or &#8220;no&#8221; so that we can better understand what the divine &#8220;Yes&#8221; means.  It&#8217;s hard news sometimes.</p>
<p>I wonder if repentance means understanding two things that are very difficult in this day.  The first is that we do have limits, and that limits are good.  I encounter this fact when I get a bottle of wine at a local store:  too many and I become disempowered.  The human mind can often only handle a limited number of choices.  It makes us more free when we do this to ourselves. </p>
<p>The second is that the good life is a committed life.  It may be running, it may be music, it may be self-discipline, and it may be supporting a community of friends, but without commitment, life doesn&#8217;t happen.  It just floats on by.  It passes quickly.  As the wisdom writer puts it, we become unmoored, like vapors.  </p>
<p>And to be committed to each other often means a &#8220;changing of the mind&#8221; &#8211; a repentance.  Especially in a day when it is the thoughtless God of convenience, inattention and immediate gratification that commands our lives so utterly.  To make that conversion is hard work, and most of us will make it in fits and starts.  It does require tenacity, self-examination, and vigilance (it sounds, perhaps, like dieting), but in a community of loving souls, all things are possible.</p>
<p>There are rewards.  Saying no to some things means saying yes to others.  I have spilled miso soup on my computer, which means that when I come home I am computerless, and yes generally it is a drag.</p>
<p>But for that reason, the other evening I had the unexpected opportunity to spend an evening in quiet meditation on my porch, with a cigar, just considering God, the world, and its utter beauty.   I was given the opportunity to say &#8220;no&#8221; to the allures of the internet, and to say yes to the world.</p>
<p>Not that I will always be so wise to make that choice.  But I slept better that night.  </p>
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		<title>A couple notes about NY-23</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 13:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As someone who misses the liberal wing of the Republican party, I am pleased that Scozzafava was vindicated.  Michelle Malkin (who I actually went to college with) is doing her best to spin this.   I suspect she wrote two articles.   If Owens had lost, she would have declared victory.  [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=padremambo.wordpress.com&blog=5759837&post=468&subd=padremambo&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>As someone who misses the liberal wing of the Republican party, I am pleased that Scozzafava was vindicated.  Michelle Malkin (who I actually went to college with) is doing her best to spin this.   I suspect she wrote two articles.   If Owens had lost, she would have declared victory.   He won, so she is still declaring victory, but over the Republican elite.   </p>
<p>The truth, however, is that a Democrat has won in a district that has gone Republican for more than a century.   This should have been an <em>easy</em> district for Republicans to win.  </p>
<p>But her band of revolutionaries lost it.    The anti-tax, flat earth wing of the corporate party didn&#8217;t fly with the traditionalist old school voters considering bread and butter issues prior to the confused ideologies of the Armey/Palin wing.   They didn&#8217;t need a carpet bagger or outsiders wanting to fight the culture war in NY state.</p>
<p>Note that both Republicans who won in VA and NJ are moderates who may govern responsibly.  In the end, this election had little to do with Obama.  But people do wish things might move a bit faster.  <a href="http://www.fivethirtyeight.com/2009/11/what-happened-and-why.html">Nate analyzes the data</a>.</p>
<p>Michelle Malkin and her supporters seem content to remain in a minority party, having sacrificed practicality with an authoritarian ideology masking as libertarianism.   In the end, for her ideology is more important than governance.  And I suspect many people know that when conservatives enter government, they would rather <a href="http://www.salon.com/books/int/2008/08/07/thomas_frank/">wreck it</a> than run it.   Which is why sensible voters won&#8217;t go the revolutionary, radical route currently masquerading as real conservatism.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Liberal&#8221; Wing of the Republican Party?  There were many.  They were conservatives in temperament, but willing to move cautiously for human feeling and integrity.  </p>
<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jacob_K._Javits">Jacob Javitz</a>.<br />
<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/learning/general/onthisday/bday/1211.html">Fiorello Laguardia</a>.<br />
<a href="http://www.millicentfenwick.com/">Millicent Fenwick</a>.<br />
<a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/news/2003/dec/03/guardianobituaries.usa">Barber Conable</a>.<br />
<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amo_Houghton">Amo Haughton</a>.<br />
<a href="http://bioguide.congress.gov/scripts/biodisplay.pl?index=w000253">Lowell</a> <a href="http://healthyamericans.org/newsroom/releases/?releaseid=197">Weicker</a>.</p>
<p>They supported civil rights, good government, and anti-corruption in both parties.    </p>
<p>I suspect that when Obama talks about bi-partisanship, he misses them also.  I also bet some Republicans miss them as well.  But they have been held hostage  by those who demand ideological purity before good government.    Whether right or left, the Manichean view that elevates purity and perfection above practicality is a mask for the psychology of tyranny.</p>
<p>Old school, patrician, liberal Republicans knew this, which is why they opposed the radical left.  And why they now must oppose the radical right.</p>
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